What to expect when dating a nigerian man
How many a little girl have had to wash dishes and when asked if Junior can join her, have been told “No! ” How many a heart has been broken by those brown, twinkly eyes and wicked, dimpled grin?
The countless “I’m sorry, I’ll never do it again” to the “It wasn’t my fault, she tricked me…into getting her pregnant!
That the Nigerian man loves women can not be disputed. Not too many years ago, the winner of Miss Norway Beauty Contest was a half-caste with the distinctively Nigerian name of my forebears. Once he makes up his mind, he goes after her with a single-mindedness of a soldier on a special mission. Which brings me to the next characteristic…How many times have you my sisters, sworn that you were going to “brain” that boyfriend of yours when you catch him in yet another escapade, only for him to turn up with an innocent-looking face, weaving his fabricated story of how he tripped and fell on his Aunt who happened to be wearing red lipstick, so that’s how the mark got on his shirt! The only woman wey fit turn Urhobo man to flying boat! This leads to yet another characteristic…There is no denying it…Nigerian men are fine. Is it the “yellow” ones from the East or the Caramel ones from the West? Sure, there are some that are more “fearfully than wonderfully made” but generally our boys are fine!
) said they wouldn’t mind getting married to Nigerians and would like to be hooked up!African men in general see the women as a helper who they have to love, pamper and dominate and they want her to remain thus, not another bread winner or some sort of competition.Clubbing, excessive partying, alcohol is considered highly indecent for a Nigerian wife while the white woman considers them a sort of get-away.A Nigerian man is very hard-working compared to his counterparts in Diaspore because 1.The average Nigerian man believes in a family and the men are expected to take up all the bills at home. The man runs the home irrespective of ‘how much’ the wife is worth.