What to do if she is dating other men sex dating in latta south carolina
Its not that she wants to run out and just start sleeping with everyone.
Its just that she doesn't want to make a mistake one night without letting me know her feelings first.
Been dating this girl -- let's call her Laura -- for 2 weeks, after we met about a month ago online and set up our first date back in late July.
The second date was terrific -- romantic dinner, followed by a late night walk, and some basic intimacy at her place.
I know.....isn't Hollywood material or anything, but for only 2 weeks, it's moving pretty quickly.
For an extremely busy and popular girl, I did manage to get her on both Friday and Saturday night this weekend, and hopefully again on Sunday. Here's the thing.......she's very busy socially, and has a ton of friends. By asking her that question you are revealing your eagerness to jump into the relationship and are lowering your value by showing your insecurity.
No sex (I'm not looking for sex necessarily this early anyway), but there's definitely a physical escalation each date, and even when her roommates walked in, she didn't flinch while we were cuddled up together.
One would hope that a girl that demonstrates this level of interest and intimacy wouldn't be dating other guys, but it happens. Yes, I realize that insecurity is an issue......partly a product of the fact that I was pretty serious with a girl who, as it turned out, was dating another guy and decided to make things exclusive with the other guy after we had been dating for awhile -- long after I was already emotionally invested. Do not go mess this up with your insecurities and jealousy. She should wait awhile and if she really likes him she might bring this up.
I'm thinking about just casually asking tomorrow night if she's dating other guys. I'd rather not date other girls casually while I'm with Laura, because I want to give this a chance. You have to assume, especially if you met online, that she is still dating others.
Am I better off not asking and just letting this thing play out, or is this something that I should do? Still, not a long time, but we've been out 5 times. I'll just leave it at that, and take it one step at a time.
__________________ Honey, I just don't feel like we're Facebooking enough. By the way, only a few days after our first date, she closed out her online dating account.
One thing she suggested to help her was to have both of us start taking a day or two every other weekend to do something for our selves. Her thought was to give each person some personal time to do anything.