The guy im not dating
Otherwise, people can be left destabilized, questioning themselves and more guarded for the next relationship.While the truth definitely needs to be told, the more you can embed this truth in a dignified context, the easier it will be understood and received. Use your knowledge of the person and your interactions to guide what you say. If you need some help with the actual words you use, here’s a good place to start: “This is not easy for me to say, and perhaps it won’t be easy for you to hear.Instead of forcing him to have a potentially uncomfortable conversation before he’s figured out his feelings, why don’t you just wait to see him reveal his feelings?
(“So you’re kind of boring, and your breath smells like dead people…”).
But ultimately, you shouldn’t have to have ask him how he’s feeling.
You should know how he’s feeling based on the effort he’s making for you.
On the other hand, if you see him once a week and he only communicates with you by text message, I wouldn’t get too excited about him.
And when you reach the point where you simply can’t live without the knowledge that you’re in a committed relationship, most likely, in a month or two, that’s when it’s time to have a real conversation with him.
And if he’s not making an effort, you don’t have to look very far for your answer.