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For most Muslim girls and boys this means no dating during High School.
This can be difficult for them when they see their Western peers dating at this age, but most of them will adhere to the rules set by their parents.
A woman can also become a representative to pronounce the marriage formula.
Issue 2374: * As long as the woman and the man are not certain that their representative has pronounced the formula, they cannot look at each other as Mahram (like husband and wife), and a mere probable suspicion that the representative might have pronounced the formula is not sufficient.
And if the representative says that he has pronounced the formula, but his assertion does not satisfy the parties concerned, it will not be deemed sufficient.
Issue 2375: If a woman appoints a person as her representative so that he may, for example, contract her marriage with a man for ten days, but does not specify the day from which the period of ten days would commence, the representative can contract her marriage with that man for ten days from any day he likes.
I have made myself your wife for an agreed period and agreed Mahr), and then the man immediately responds thus: Qabiltu (i.e. And the marriage will also be in order if they appoint other persons to act as their representatives.
This sort of fixed time marriage is called Mut'ah or Sigha.
Issue 2372: * Whether marriage is permanent or temporary, the formal formula must be pronounced; mere tacit approval and consent, or written agreement, is not sufficient.
The woman with whom such a marriage is concluded is called da'ima (i.e. In a fixed time marriage (Mut'ah), the period of matrimony is fixed, for example, matrimonial relation is contracted with a woman for an hour, or a day, or a month, or a year, or more.
However, the period fixed for the marriage should not exceed the span of normal lives of the spouses, because in that case, the marriage will be treated as a permanent one.
The art of dating is viewed very differently in the Muslim community and strict rules apply where most families are concerned.