Most men on dating sites are married
And yes, what women have to learn do more is to tell what they like. Learning to be creative and make it a part of the love making is the key.
But that leads straight back to the earlier thingie: many are still programmed to 'we must please man' that they don't even think about what they like or how they like it. Not taking it personal and realizing each person is different and has different desires is also necessary to be fulfilled.
A woman is as much a sexual being as a man, just in a different way, she needs different things in order to feel desired, sensual, cherished, and in the mood and wanting to be with her man.
At least know how to find a clitoris and what to do with it, and above all: realize that just like not every man likes his thing to be treated like the same way, this goes for woman too. We women have pleased for thousands of years, we kind of know the drill.Being a bit sensitive and indeed asking, showing an interest and so on will help do that. I think this is where most of the problems come from.And yes, what women have to learn do more is to tell what they like. If she no longer looks desirable, his interest decrease; when he no longer gives her the emotional support, her interest decreases.But that leads straight back to the earlier thingie: many are still programmed to 'we must please man' that they don't even think about what they like or how they like it. Eventually the relationship will deteriorate to roommates.It is challenging for each to understand and respond to what the other needs from them.
Those questions are very personal and it is something that your partner should express when they are comfortable; that is like asking someone if they are gay or lesbian.