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People without children don’t have much of a concept of what it’s like to be tethered to home for feeding, napping, school, and extracurricular activities. And because you keep choosing men without kids, you’ve come to the conclusion that the Brady Bunch life is a fantasy. He has to understand that, as a parent, you need a little slack, because you don’t control your own schedule.Hate to tell you, sweetie, but the reason that the Brady Bunch is NOT a fantasy is because both Mike and Carol HAD kids. The tone of your email suggests that because I am a single guy who found love with a childless woman that my advice is invalid to you. Everyone likes to think her situation is particularly unique. Advice for women over 50 is almost identical to advice for women under 50.Soon enough you’re going to resent one of them, if not both, and the idea of bringing your children along for dates is not really something acceptable.So you can talk about what your dating life as a single man was like –you wanted a woman who you could have children with, so you probably didn’t date women with children and if you did you soon found out that they needed to be thrown back.There are a lot of tough questions with no good answers.Is it easier to date someone else who also has kids—someone who will “get it” when you can’t be spontaneous or flexible with your schedule?Or is it easier to date someone who doesn’t have kids whose schedule is wide open and can more easily work around yours? “It's on my profile because it's a huge part of my life.
Dating as a parent means constantly juggling and negotiating multiple peoples’ needs and wants.In dating, we all have specific deal makers breakers.When you have a child, it’s important to de-prioritize your picky preferences in the name of finding someone who loves your child as much as they love you!Imagine doing all that plus picking up the kids from school, dropping them off at soccer practice, and maintaining your status as ‘the cool dad.’Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy!Including the fact that you have children will not only help show who is really #1 in your life but will also help disqualify those who aren’t ready for your ever-changing schedule or to be someone’s step\parent!
Evan, I fall into the majority of divorced women with a degree who are looking on line, but with children.