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It was also a red flag that my suspicions were right – we didn’t share the same level of interest in each other.
When the night was over I went to his hotel room to see if he was there. Then he said, “Here I am a 34-year-old man at a singles’ retreat.” That’s when I knew that dating someone who had been married was more complicated than dating someone who had not.
There are different opinions about how long it takes. In the story I told above, my boyfriend had been divorced for about three years and yet he was still hurting.
Dating too soon after a divorce is sometimes a sign that the man is trying to fill the void left from his marriage.
He needs to seek healing for himself, not just to satisfy the wishes of a new girlfriend.
Even though I have never been through a divorce, I imagine it is difficult to identify one clear reason for it. Depending on your interpretation of scripture, your personal experiences with divorce, and your convictions, you may not agree with the reasons.
He might think that finding a significant other quickly will get life back to normal quickly.
But like any breakup, a man must go through a grieving and healing process before he is ready to date.
Otherwise the dating relationship is nothing more than selfishness of either one or both people.However, it’s astounding how many people, Christians and non-Christians, get into relationships with people before they are legally divorced.I imagine this is evidence of our societal apathy towards the marriage covenant.Choices based on the present but without enough regard on the past.These similarities make me think it is wise for women to ask four questions before dating a divorced man.
Every year my church hosted a singles retreat in Destin, Florida on Labor Day weekend.