Dating 10 months no commitment
I personally know several couples who dated for five years or more and finally did get married (and are still happily married). Because I might have just given women stuck in dead end relationships which will never lead to marriage the false hope that they too will be one of those success stories, and the motivation (or excuse) to hang in their for another couple of years (or more). If you’re in a relationship with a man who is unable to ask for your hand in marriage, you have two choices: 1.
Ladies, before you get too excited let me tell you two things about those success stories: 1. I can only imagine the frustration and pain they constantly had to suffer as year after year flew by with nothing more to show for than some I love you’s and promises of impending engagement, as they watched their friends walk down the wedding aisle one by one.
Can you handle that pain, day after day, for years? The women eventually gave their men a choice: marry me or lose me. They cut their guys off, cold turkey, no making up, getting back together, trying again.
Well, I hate to tell you this, but if he doesn’t come back he would never have married you anyway. If a woman can’t commit to marrying you now, she almost definitely never will. Have you been in a long relationship that ended well? You can share your thoughts in the comments section below.
I just got out of a 17 year marriage and not looking for another one!
So if a man can’t figure out if he wants to officially commit to me after months of serious dating, I choose to believe he won’t decide by me lingering around “playing” girlfriend for too long.Just like any situation with the opposite sex, there are exceptions to the rule, because there is no one-size-fits-all set of rules for every relationship; but being unofficial for too long while one person wants more is usually a situation destined for disaster.Someone’s feelings will end up hurt if it drags on too long. Met a man last june online and we met and hit it off.Wasn't really doing this as a game per say, I just didn't want to be clingy or have anyone clingy on me.
Many times, we can save ourselves the heartache by knowing simply when it’s time to exit a situation. Or for my no-nonsense girls, maybe you give a man three months to decide.