Coptic girl dating
“The claim that we subject girls to virginity testing has nothing to do with reality.” Like other Egyptians, Christian parents are strongly opposed to their daughters having premarital sex.
In southern Egypt, where communities are dominated by strict tribal, family and religious rules, virginity is a serious issue.
Not only from strangers and random aunties at church but from close family relatives and friends.
I was getting closer to hitting the mid-20s in my life with no engagement ring on my finger.
I was standing in church at a close friend’s wedding, freshly graduated from university and excited to enter the “real world.” That was also the first time I had heard the Arabic courtesy idiom “o’baleek,” which translates into something like “hopefully, your turn is next.” It was soon to become a phrase I’d hear repeatedly at weddings and engagement parties but it was that first wedding I had attended that marked me the most.
Standing in church at the wedding, two of my mother’s friends greeted me with firm hugs and an even firmer message: “Now that you’ve graduated, you need to find a good husband and get married.” I laughed the statement off and didn’t take much of it. However, the older I became — and as more of my friends married — I heard that statement with increasing frequency.
This young man was shunned, even though he is from the same community and culture, with good attributes and working towards a great future in medicine.
His family background from a “broken home,” however, was too much to accept by the other family.
“This is also done by specialised doctors who use modern medical equipment,” Halim said.Also, if he is not working towards a good, stable and highly remunerative job, this will be a sticking point that many parents will not tolerate lightly.I recently became aware of the experience of one of my close friends from church who was dating another close friend from the church.Cairo - Anger is rising among Christians in Egypt after a former legal adviser to the Coptic Orthodox Church accused the church of forcing Christian girls to take virginity tests before getting married.Ramses al-Naggar said a number of churches subject girls to the tests, which activists called a “humiliation” for Christian women.