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He is happy in this relationship with very little complaints, and does not see us breaking up anytime soon or ever.Another possible redflag is that he rarely talks about our future, he says he can see us moving in together soon but that's about it.My current SO has not said it to me, we've been dating for almost a year now, but all of his actions indicate to me what "love" would represent, so I am not as concerned that he hasn't said the words. Everything he does and what he represents feels like what love is supposed to be. For me saying the L word is pretty serious and I don't just throw it around unless I mean it. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. Over ,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Besides my boyfriend, I had met another person like that, who refuses to say it unless he's already picturing how their babies would look like. Hello everyone, I thank you in advance for the thoughtful reply you would leave. I'm in my mid-20s and he's in his mid-30s, despite the big age gap, we get along great, respect each other's opinions, make sacrifices for each other, try hard to make each other happy, and just overall enjoy each other's company to the fullest. When we are physically together, I can honestly say that I am fulfilled and happy.I may not even have thought of this as a problem if (hypothetically) we live together.(Personally I think his definition is a little bit strict, but I suppose I can understand) He says that at the moment he's not concerned about whether we are in love, all he cares about is that we spend a lot of time together.He claims that he'll be worried about the love issue when it doesn't happen after 2 years.
Checking out several posts, im seeing that its more than I thought. Post how many months you dated before getting engaged I was engaged after just 10 months of dating! Leave well alone and start reading up on how to keep a spark going.I may be a little jaded too because my ex-husband said "I love you" all the time but his actions didn't indicate it so much, so at the end of the day, they're simply words that mean nothing without the actions to support it.I suppose I'd like to know if it is indeed too early to evaluate a relationship on that level.I have a feeling that if love hasn't happened yet, it probably never will, considering that we already have a routine going on, thus lack of stimulus for any new sparks.
But when I'm alone, I think about us often and focus on the big picture, and rather unfortunately, I realized that some crucial elements from this relationship are missing.